Erik’s day

  • Jun 18, 2012
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The Father’s Day newspaper is always amusing in a sad sort of way. On Mother’s Day the pages are filled with glowing tributes, sweet anecdotes, but on Daddy’s Day stories decry father figures gone bad, mourn our increasingly fatherless society and even the positive ones give lots of information on how to be a better dad.

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Can you imagine “how to be a better mother” articles on Mother’s Day? We’d all dissolve into tears at the slightest suggestion. Mothers already have guilt mastered, yet Father’s Day seems to be about “take your job seriously, dads!”

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And more than anything, I am grateful for a husband who takes fathering seriously. Some men take great pride in their career or their hobby; Erik takes pride in his family. Whether he’s handing out bathroom cleaning assignments on Saturday morning, playing ball in the family room, standing watch over the littles as they do math worksheets or discussing his favorite TED talk, he constantly looks for ways to teach and develop skills.

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A gifted athlete himself, Erik doesn’t care if his kids win the game or score the goal.
You’ll never see Erik yelling at the sidelines– only cheering at successes (and sometimes for the other team).

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With Ben gone, I’ve learned how much Erik truly adores his children. I’ll catch him in a melancholy mood and he’ll explain, “I just miss Ben.” He doesn’t hesitate to call Hans home from an activity gone late and he gets truly annoyed when Stefan works too many hours. While my letters to Ben are chatty and silly, each of Erik’s are small masterpieces full of information and insights.

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Nothing defines Erik more than his love of learning. He wants to know EVERYTHING– languages, scripture, science, economics, random facts. While the rest of us bury our noses in novels, he reads piles of non-fiction and the Jewish World Review (come to think of it, he usually keeps up on all our favorite series too– Hunger Games, The Demon King, Harry Potter (of course), even Twilight back in the day).

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One of Erik’s best traits is his constant desire to improve. He’s never satisfied with his own status quo and constantly searches for ways to become a better husband and father. I hope it doesn’t sound insulting to say fathering our large brood didn’t come naturally to him (he only has one sibling). I’m always more impressed by hard work than innate ability. He’s worked hard to become the incredible father he is today.

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Already this is too long (and Xander wants me to talk about Erik’s valentine making skills and his ability to converse with anyone) but I need one more sentence: I believe a father’s actions for good or bad are magnified– a truly good man can bless generations. God himself claims the role of Father above all others; we are His work and His glory. I’m grateful Erik has made our family his life’s work.

Ah, why am I talking so much? The kids say it better (and funnier):

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8 Comments

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    Kit Linkous

    June 19, 2012

    Eden and I just had a great time with this post–especially the video. When she saw the picture of Mary on Erik’s lap she said, ” I love Mary. But not Erik–he tickles me!” We all know how much she really loves him, though. A great tribute to a wonderful father.

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    annie

    June 19, 2012

    I just let my kids (2 girls, 4 boys) watch this cute video and several of your others. They loved each one, especially the Cowboy sippy cups. They also loved all the fighting on the tramp and your boy’s awesome muscles! Such a cute family.

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    Blue

    June 19, 2012

    lotto winner.

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    jen

    June 19, 2012

    just as i wish i could be your daughter, i also think erik would be an AWESOME father to have.

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    Tracy

    June 20, 2012

    More shirtless push-up pictures please.

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    Cath

    June 20, 2012

    My girls watched Lehnardt videos for a half hour this afternoon. True entertainment. We giggled all through the kids’ Dad piece. They were pretty impressed with the push-ups and gratuitous fight scenes 😉 Me too. Love your darling family. And happy Father’s Day to Erik. I never considered the learning curve he has experienced with raising a large family. Kudos. They/you are so blessed. xo

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    Mitchell Family

    June 20, 2012

    Another great post.

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    Rachelle

    June 28, 2012

    That video was the BEST. I laughed out loud at the end. Erik is a blessed man.

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