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  • You don’t need to visit the Holy Land to walk with Jesus

    August 26, 2026

    I just returned from two weeks in the Holy Land and it was all the superlatives: extraordinary, exhausting, eye-opening, HOT! It was a privilege and an adventure. (And I met the best people!)

    Before I departed on my trip, my sister said to me, “Please don’t come home and use your trip to be insufferable, “Well, when I was in the Holy Land…”

    I reminded her that I’d traveled to the BYU Jerusalem Center as a student in 1989. So I have nearly four decades without flaunting my privilege.

    Because traveling to the Holy Land is a tremendous privilege—one that requires a great deal of time, money, and opportunity. It’s simply not possible for everyone to make the journey.

    Some religions do require a pilgrimage of faith. Every adult Muslim who is physically and financially capable is obligated to perform the Hajj to Mecca once in their lifetime. Hindus and Buddhist also make pilgrimages to rivers, temples, and places associated with their religious founders.

    Yet Christianity makes an almost radical counterclaim: you don’t need to visit the Holy Land to walk with Jesus.

    And yes, I felt Jesus while in Jerusalem. But no more than in my own home while bathing a baby, or in our very plain chapel taking a humble sacrament of bread and water.

    Jesus was actually born into a pilgrimage religion. The Torah commands Israelite men to appear before the Lord three times a year at Passover, Shavuot, and Sukkot. Once a permanent temple was built, that command meant pilgrimage to Jerusalem and the Temple.1

    These pilgrimages were a matter of discussion during Christ’s ministry. The Samaritan woman at the well asked Jesus: Where is the right place to worship? This mountain or Jerusalem?

    And Jesus answered:

    “The hour cometh, when ye shall neither in this mountain, nor yet at Jerusalem, worship the Father…. The true worshippers shall worship the Father in spirit and in truth.”
    —John 4:21, 23

    Christ makes ordinary places sacred with His presence.

    There’s something extraordinary about standing on the Mount of Olives looking towards Jerusalem and knowing that Jesus also looked toward that city. We can follow him down the hill, then up the steps to the Temple Mount. There is holiness in Capernaum, Bethlehem, and the Sea of Galilee. The Holy Sepulchre and the Western Wall hum with devotion from millennia of sincere prayers.

    Place does matter. As a people, we love to visit church history sites, we yearn for the Holy Land, and I think we all want to visit the Salt Lake Temple open house next year. (I’m going to be a volunteer! Come stay at my house.)

    But our discipleship does not depend on traveling to sacred sites. It is lived in how we worship God and how we treat those around us.

    After two weeks of travel and several flight delays, I am finally home.

    Home to where my children need me, my neighbor wants to talk about something important, the weeds in my yard need tending, and I’m aching to go to the temple.

    Jerusalem is sacred. But home, home is sacred too.

    1

    When the Temple was destroyed in 70 AD the prescribed pilgrimage festivals could no longer be held at the Temple. While it is meaningful for Jews to visit Jerusalem and the Western Wall, it is neither required nor considered temple worship.

  • April 22, 2026 ❤️ Mary + Zachary

    May 16, 2026

    On Mary and Zach’s first date (a hike up Millcreek Canyon), one or the other of them (they genuinely can’t remember who) said, “I don’t really like big weddings. I’d rather just get married on a Wednesday with only a few people around.”

    And that is exactly what they did.

    It was a simple, lovely Wednesday wedding with just family at the Draper Temple.

    Both Zach and Mary are practical people who do not enjoy being the center of attention, so everything was kept as simple as possible. When Mary’s new sister-in-law Mady (professional baker and generally useful person to have in a family) asked what kind of cake they wanted, they replied, “Whatever is easiest.”

    When asked what flowers she wanted, Mary said, “We’ll just buy whatever Trader Joe’s has that week.” These were expertly arranged by our Madi, with Heather and Sammie serving as floral support staff. (This required two different Madis, because one is not enough.)

    We took photos in the backyard and ate Cafe Rio around the kitchen table, which felt exactly right.

    One of my favorite moments was the dinner toasts from parents and siblings. Every one of Mary’s brothers and sisters-in-law had something thoughtful and lovely to say, and I found myself feeling ridiculously proud of all of them. I really wish I had recorded those.

    Stefan gathered video clips from all the siblings and created the happiest little wedding video. And yes, there is significantly more footage of brothers and babies than of Mary and Zach.

    Which is exactly how they would have wanted it.

    Congratulations, Mary and Zach! We love you dearly and wish you a lifetime of joy, laughter, and happy Wednesdays.