One of the best ways to influence people is to make them feel important. Roy T. Bennett
1. Most time and effort should be spent at the lower levels of the pyramid.
2. The solution to a problem at one level of the pyramid is always below that level of the pyramid.
3. Ultimately, my effectiveness at each level of the pyramid depends on the deepest level of the pyramid- my way of being.
– from The Anatomy of Peace
My way of being – how do I feel about my child and his behavior? Do I want my child to improve and grow or do I want them to continue as he is so I can be justified in my negative feelings about him?